Fragile Life

Does u think our life is very fragile and priceless?

At this minute we were talking and laughing and the next puff...DEAD...

Trust me it does...

Few weeks ago me and my younger sister was talking and laughing about our past time and my older sis’s ex bf...

Then my elder sis argues and asks my younger sis where his bf...

In a sad tone she told us that her bf had past away...

I thought she was laying but that’s the truth...

He died in a car crash...Day b4 my sis end her national service at sansui...

What make it much sadder is the guy always calls my sis and he made my sis happy. She treated my sis like a Queen. His own queen in his hand built palace. He pampered her so much.. Then without no reason he ask a break from my sis. The lame reason that he give is, so that the both of them got more time study and focus in education. Until today, I still do not believe he can let my sis go….

And ya, my instinct was right. One of his best friend called my sis using her ex hp no, he told my sis that the guy (her bf), until his last breath he still thinking bout my sis….He knew he was dying. He suffer from Hepatitis C. Finally everything is clear…He knew he is dying and think of how to minimize the sadness in my sis heart….Until the end of his life he still think of her… Weird?? But trust me… He think of her went he stuck in the crash…Very nice boy but destiny in the hand of our Creator…No one can change it and no one will be spear from it...

Same think happen 2day (17.7.08), and again it make me sad and think why life is so fragile? I call him R…Last Saturday his give birth to a baby girl... A baby girl… thinks that finally him going to get after a long time waiting. But one occasion that all should be happy turn out sour, mood and be a blackest history to R and his wife. What went wrong??? Here’s what happen, the fault is blame to the hospital, they didn’t do their job…They take long time to deliver the baby… end up the baby suffocated in the mother womb… WHAT THE HOSPITAL DOES… HUH...EZ… ALL OF THAT THEY JUST WALK AWAY…LIKE NOTHING HAPPEN…THEY JUZ SAID SORRY FOR U’RE LOST!!!!

Ask y didn’t sue them?? I did ask R, he said 2 me “ if I do that, can I get my baby back?” For God sake, unless u’re heart made out from steel u will know how it feels... But ya, by doing that can their baby, precious litter angel be brought back back alive...Back to her parents arm?? NEVER AGAIN...NEVER...THAT IS THE ONE THING THAT CAN’T NEVER BE DONE…No matter how long u pray, cry till no more tear to shear or even you cried blood. One child that you love the most can’t never be back…never… how can a mother stand that… One that cares the most, love most can hand the sadness??

If you think it’s cruel but that the truth… It does happen around u every minute everyday… Love, precious, pampered the one you love while there’s still chance for you too do so... Don’t wait till the time they are gone…I’ll be like no matter how far u search, or you search till the end of the world and still, u won’t found it… You can never find it again... Grab it and hold it tight in your arm so that they won’t “disappear”.